Even such
Is even more destructive, more painfully when one of parents demands that the child kept a secret occurred or told from other parent.
Even such phrases can sometimes sound: We go to eat ice cream, but do not speak to the father about it.
Actually such relation does the child excessively close, for example, to one of parents, and at the same time deprives of it contact and interaction with another.
Even worse if the request or the requirement of privacy is warmed up punishment threat.
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